Somewhere along the way, the focus shifted. Instead of capturing what was before us, we began capturing ourselves in front of it. The waterfall, the canyon, the forest became backdrop, while we became the centerpiece. The moment was no longer about being immersed in the grandeur of the scene—it became about curating a memory for others to see, a highlight reel to showcase to the world.

Inspired by a moment on my Peloton ride with Christine D’Ercole (@iamicaniwillido) when she said something that stuck with me:
“Curiosity before criticism.”

It’s easy to judge someone—whether it's a stranger, a coworker, or even a loved one. We see one moment, one behavior, and we assume the worst. But the truth is: we often react to the story we created in our heads, not the story they’re actually living.

When was the last time you laughed so hard your stomach hurt? Or got so lost in an activity that time seemed to vanish? If you’re struggling to remember, it’s time to reconnect with your inner CFO—your Chief Fun Officer.